Pitaj Stručnjaka

strucnjak

Već 6 godina u školi nekoliko cura iz mog razreda me izbacuju iz zajedničkih aktivnosti te me iskorištavaju. Dečki iz mojeg razreda mi govore da sam glupača te me preko discorda vrijeđaju jer sam niska te mi govore da se ubijem. Prije mjesec dana su me istukli kod parka iz čistog mira dok sam prolazila sa svojim susjedama i malim psom. Stalno u krevet idem plačući. Nesvjesno te zbog ljutnje sam se počela tući po nogama no prestala sam jer me važna osoba potaknula na to. Prije toga svega nakon nekoliko godina prijateljstva ostavila me najbolja prijateljica nisam htjela ići u školu jer me to sve jako pogodilo. Cyber bulyala me preko snapchata i drugih drugih društvenih mreža. Sad opet razgovaramo no jako teško. Stalno provodim vrijeme učeći ili trenirajući moje pse jako sam vezana za njih te ih jako volim Često razgovaram s mamom no ne želim joj sve reći jer me ne shvaća. Ponekad želim skočiti sa balkona svoje kuće. Neznam što da više radim.

Lana, 12

Pitaj Stručnjaka

strucnjak

U školi me ogovara nekoliko prijatelja ne znam zašto. Čak su napravili grupu gdje me ogovaraju. To sam saznala tako što mi je prijateljica rekla. Više ne želim ići u školu ali me mama i tata tjeraju. Svaku večer kod kuće plačem.

Ani, 11

Pitaj Stručnjaka

strucnjak

dobar dan kako god, javila sam Vam se zbog jednog razloga...naime u skoli imam jako puno problema od strane djece iz mojeg razreda, neprestano me maltretiraju i rugaju dok nesto ne mogu...ako mi mozete dat savjet bila bi vam jako zahvalna lp.

lorena, 14

Pitaj Stručnjaka

strucnjak

Imam dosta velike probleme i ne znam kako se nosit s time u pitanju je moj razred i grupa na messengeru moj razred je pun narkomana koji puse marihuanu i kad ih u grupi nesto pitam vezano za skolu zeznu me i izbacuju me i vrate nakon nekog perioda lako receno crna ovca sam samo zato sto sam drugaciji od njih imam drugaciji stil oblacenja protiv nasilja sam ne psujem i ne drogiram se kao oni.

Miha, 16

Pitaj Stručnjaka

strucnjak

Dobar dan, danas sam dobila obavjest koja ke potresča meni je svasta dolazilo naprimjer oglasi cura koje traze decka ili koje zele se je**ti neznam kako da drukcije kazem i ka sam to stalno micala i neznam kako naoraviti da mi to ne doslazi i sada mi je doslo da imam neki virus i da ce ove obavjesti biti obavljene na fejzbuk sto sam ja vidjela i neznam kako da to blokiram, strah me jako

Lanaaa, 11

Ema Luketin

EMA LUKETIN

I will write on English because my Croation is bad,hope is not a problem.I downloaded tiktok and started posting videos there.So tbh I get a lot of good comments but there are bad too (its normal not everyone has to like me).But I get a lot like gay,please die,you are so ugly and fat...I was insecure bout myself before too but now I am way more,because I get those words a lot in school especially the first one (I am straight)but it still hurts.Also I get a lot of private messages on instagram like I will beat you,because Sometimes I reply on those hate comments. It’s not big problem because I am used to be hated since I was little.🤷🏻🤦🏻‍♂️

Andrejj, 15

Dear Andrejj, thank you for contacting us, and we are sorry for what you are going through. It is terrible to hear that you are used to be hated. What about all those positive comments what you are getting? Try to focus on them more than you do now. Also, try to talk to your parents about everything what is happening to you so they could know what you are going through. About those hate comments and messages, although we know it is hard to resist, don’t answer to them. Block those who are sending them and report them to admin. Take screenshots of that content and show them to your parents, as well as to your teachers or principle if they were sent by pupils from your school. Talk to your teachers or principle about the insults which you mentioned are happening in the school, also. They can do something about it and stop that violence at last. About the threats, they are punishable by law in Croatia. We do not know where you are coming from but you can talk about those to police and see if they can charge those people. We hope everything goes well. Make sure you always report violence, and do not ever take it as something normal because it is not and it should not be. At least talk to your parents or some other adult who you trust, and see what their advice is. We wish you luck and keep your head up! -Ema

Ema Luketin